ABOUT DR. WAGNER
A Thoughtful Perspective on Life's Transitions
Deborah Wagner, Ph.D., is a psychologist and author whose work explores how we understand and navigate the changes, challenges, and transitions that shape our lives. Drawing on decades of clinical experience, she brings psychological insight and deeply human perspective to questions of identity, relationships, loss, aging, health, and change.
A PERSPECTIVE ON CHANGE
Understanding Change Begins with Understanding Ourselves
Change is part of every life, but understanding what is happening to us—and within us—is not always simple. Changes in relationships, health, work, family, identity, or the expectations we once held can challenge familiar ways of understanding ourselves and the lives we thought we knew.
Dr. Wagner's work begins with the belief that greater understanding creates perspective. By examining how we experience and respond to change, we can begin to navigate it more thoughtfully, adapt to what has changed, and gradually incorporate the transition into the larger framework of our lives.
PROFESSIONAL BACKGROUND
Decades of Experience Understanding People and Change
For more than thirty years, Deborah Wagner, Ph.D., has worked as a developmental psychologist, exploring how people grow, adapt, and respond to change across the lifespan. Her clinical work with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families has given her a distinctive perspective on the emotional and psychological dimensions of relationships, health, aging, identity, and other significant life changes.
That perspective extends beyond the therapy room. As the author of The Fifth Decade and The Thief and the Gift, and through her ongoing writing, Dr. Wagner brings psychological understanding to experiences that are both deeply personal and widely shared—from midlife and changing relationships to caregiving, illness, aging, loss, and unexpected change.
Her clinical experience continues to inform her work, but it does not define its boundaries. At the center of Dr. Wagner’s work is an enduring interest in how people understand what they are experiencing, find perspective during periods of change, and integrate those experiences into the lives they continue to build.
WHY THIS WORK MATTERS
The Experiences That Shape Us Deserve to Be Understood
Some of the most significant changes in our lives do not arrive with clear instructions. A relationship changes. A parent becomes ill. Our health shifts. A familiar role ends. Something we believed about another person—or ourselves—is suddenly called into question. Even changes we anticipate can leave us uncertain about what comes next.
Dr. Wagner’s work is grounded in an interest in what happens within us during these periods of change: how we understand what has happened, how our relationships and identities are affected, and how we gradually adapt to circumstances we may not have chosen.
Understanding does not eliminate difficulty or loss. But it can create perspective. And perspective can help us navigate change more thoughtfully, recognize what continues to matter, and begin incorporating what we have experienced into the continuing story of our lives - creating possibilities for healing, growth, and a deeper sense of meaning.
BOOKS & WRITING
Extending the Conversation Beyond the Therapy Room
Dr. Wagner’s books and ongoing writing bring psychological insight to a broader audience, exploring the experiences that shape us across different stages of life. Through books, articles, and reflections, she examines how greater understanding can help us find perspective within change.
Books
In The Fifth Decade and The Thief and the Gift, Deborah explores experiences of midlife, relationships, illness, caregiving, aging, loss, and the unexpected lessons that can emerge during periods of profound change.
Insights
Deborah’s ongoing articles and reflections examine the psychological and emotional dimensions of the changes people encounter throughout life, offering perspective on relationships, identity, health, aging, uncertainty, adaptation, and loss.
CLINICAL PRACTICE
A Continuing Commitment to Individual Work
Dr. Wagner continues to maintain a clinical psychology practice, working with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families navigating personal, relational, developmental, and life-stage challenges. Her decades of experience as a psychologist remain an important foundation for the perspective she brings to her writing and broader work.
For those interested in working with Dr. Wagner as a psychologist, additional information about her clinical practice, areas of expertise, and how to inquire about availability is available separately.
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Topics & Transitions
Discover ideas and experiences related to identity, relationships, change, adaptation, purpose, loss, health, aging, work, caregiving, and other life transitions.
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Insights
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Books
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