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Why It Matters to Recognize Perimenopause Early
Recognizing perimenopause early can help women understand emotional and physical changes, seek appropriate care, and prepare for the years ahead with greater confidence.
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The Earliest Signs of Perimenopause
Most women expect changes in their periods to be the first sign of perimenopause. But shifts in mood, sleep, memory, and emotional reactivity may appear much earlier. Dr. Deborah Wagner explores the subtle signs women often overlook and why recognizing the pattern matters.
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I’m Only 40, Why Are You Talking to Me About Perimenopause? Part 1
At 40, perimenopause may seem years away. Yet its earliest signs can be emotional rather than physical. Dr. Deborah Wagner explores why changes in mood, patience, and emotional reactions may signal the beginning of a transition many women don't yet recognize.
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When Our Patients Become Our Mirror
Sometimes a patient’s pain touches something deeply familiar in the therapist. In those moments, professional boundaries meet human experience, revealing how our own wounds, when understood and integrated, can deepen our capacity to help others heal.
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How Betrayal Evokes Life Transitions, Part lll: Betrayal in Family Relationships
Betrayal within a family can surface when aging parents, death, and inheritance disrupt long-established roles. Dr. Wagner explores how sibling rivalry, unresolved family dynamics, and questions of trust can transform relationships at a time when families are already vulnerable.
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Cutting The Baby In Half
High-conflict divorce can place children in the middle of their parents’ pain, anger, and disagreements. Deborah Wagner explores how custody battles can affect children—and why protecting them sometimes requires parents to separate their feelings about each other from their love for their children.
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Victim or Survivor…Your Choice?
How we understand hardship can shape how we move through it. Deborah Wagner explores the psychological distinction between identifying as a victim and seeing oneself as a survivor—and how reclaiming a sense of agency can become an important part of healing.
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A Therapist’s Epiphany: A Psychological Construct
A therapist’s epiphany can emerge when a familiar psychological idea suddenly becomes personally meaningful. This reflection explores how psychological constructs move from abstract concepts to lived understanding, and how that shift can deepen perspective on ourselves and the experiences we are trying to make sense of.
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How Betrayal Evokes Life Transitions Part ll
Betrayal can disrupt our understanding of a relationship, another person, and even ourselves. In Part II, Deborah Wagner explores the psychological process of navigating betrayal, making sense of what has changed, and beginning to integrate the experience into the larger framework of our lives.
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