Changing Roles & Sense of Self
The roles that help define us can change as our work, relationships, families, health, and circumstances evolve. When a familiar role ends or a new one begins, our sense of who we are may shift with it. Navigating these transitions involves understanding what a role has meant, recognizing what remains part of us, and developing a sense of self that can accommodate who we are becoming.
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