Unexpected Life Change

Some changes arrive without warning, disrupting routines, expectations, and the future we thought we understood. An unexpected event or change in circumstances can leave us trying to make sense of what happened while also responding to what life now requires. Navigating unexpected change involves living with uncertainty, adapting to new realities, and gradually integrating what has happened into our understanding of ourselves and our lives.

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