Relationships & Partnership

Relationships and partnerships change over time, sometimes gradually and sometimes unexpectedly. New relationships, marriage, separation, divorce, changing expectations, or shifts in an established partnership can alter familiar roles and assumptions about ourselves and others. Navigating these transitions involves understanding what has changed, what the relationship has meant, and how we move forward within a changing personal landscape.

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